A state of mind – “ Emotions ”

Emotion as described in dictionary :

A strong feeling deriving from one’s circumstances, mood or relationships with others

Synonyms: feelings, sensation, reaction, response, excitement , fire...................

Human orientation consist of 5 personality traits:

Ø  Physical

Ø  Mental

Ø  Emotional

Ø  Social

Ø  Spiritual

Each one has its place and roles in describing individual personality. A state of mind depends upon one’s capacity to define or decides its reaction towards people, events & circumstances . In NLP a presupposition describes this very well:

“ A map is not a territory ”

How one perceives , feels and think on people, events and circumstances decides its reaction towards and prompt for an action which ultimately results – pleasant or unpleasant incidents  depending upon one’s personality trait . Some of the reactions may results...............

Productive state :          Happiness, Love and Peace or

Un-Productive state  :   Anger, Fear and Sadness

One’s  orientation, care and concern towards Self, family & society decides the state of mind.

Behavioural flexibility helps to ............

“ Choose Happiness, Love and Peace – which brings success and prosperity in life ”

Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

NLP – “ Know communication within ”

In couple of my articles I shared my experiences on application of NLP. An opportunity is open in Bangalore ( India ),  whosoever interested and wants to enhance the capability within may visit website for further details : http://nlpcoach.in/social-responsibility/

It is an useful skill for :

Ø  Education , Training and Learning

Ø  Business & Organisation

Ø  Health and wellness

Ø  Sales and marketing

Ø  Family and relationship

Experienced Leading NLP professional and practitioner facilitate the workshop for easy learning and practice. 

Driving mechanism - Name, Fame & Prosperity

 

Whether  one desire or not , Individuals & Systems are driven by and for ......

Ø  Name

Ø  Fame &

Ø  Prosperity

Common needs and requirements for people are

ü  Education

ü  Business

ü  Health& wellness

ü  Sales & Marketing

ü  Relationship

Families , Societies , Organisations &  Institutes fulfilling the needs and requirements becomes Self sustaining and successful when driven by  Name, Fame & Prosperity which is the result of well structured

·         Vision

·         Mission

·         Values  

Understand and follow ..............

“ Name , Fame & Prosperity – A natural driving mechanism for success and sustainability ”

 

Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

A life challenge – “ Dilemma ”

Dictionary defines dilemma as :

A  situation in which a difficult choice has to be made between two or more alternatives, especially ones that are equally undesirable .

Personal as well in professional endeavour every one come across  “ Dilemma ” where one needs to take decision for action:

In  “ Dilemmas ” attention requires on attributes such as ......

Ø   Clarity

Ø  Patience

Ø  Intensions

Ø  Outcome

Ø  Priorities

Ø  Interest

Ø  Knowledge

Ø  Control

Which helps in making right choices.

Some of the practical  dilemmas I faced in my life journey and how I made choices shared below for readers :

a.       Selection of subjects & school after class 8^th – Kept patience

b.      Selection of college in Engineering admission – Self confidence

c.       Selection of Branch in Engineering – Role model

d.      Selection of job – Academics or Industries  - New challenges

e.      Change of job – Growth and finance ........

“ Decisions or choices varies person to person based on conditions & attributes of Individuals.” 

When facing a dilemma, choose the more morally demanding alternative.

Harold S. Kushner

 Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

A mindset - “ Conservative ”

In today’s world of fast change  technology & competition one need to prepare oneself  for change to sustain the existence.

 Progress of any ........

Ø  Individual

Ø  Family

Ø  Society

Ø  Organisation

 depends upon  “ how one is ready to accept or prepared for change ”

 Mindset of Individuals associated with family, society, organisation , specially those who are playing leading roles is important .

Conservative mindset or approach may leads one to :

ü  Slow progress

ü  Non existence

ü  More suffering

ü  Become obsolete

ü  Difficult to sustain the changes ......etc.......

One needs to overcome or change the conservative mindset or approach through .....

·         Upgrading  knowledge

·         Learning from other’s experiences

·         Making oneself aware of changes and its impact

·         Taking a calculated risk

·         Adoption of new technology

·         Ready to invest time, money and other resources  .....etc.......

“ Liberalism is the key to change conservative mindset  - adopt it ”

 

Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

Create an habit of – “ Integrating learning & enriching competence ”

 I developed an habit of integrating learning in different phases of my life.

A saying is  “ There is no end for learning ”

 Based on phases Learning may be categorises

Ø  Early age – Birth to school studies days  - 1 - 18 years

Ø  Youth age – College studies to training days  – either job or ownership – 19 – 24 years

Ø   Middle age - Services  to retirement  days  - 25 – 60 years

Ø  Post retirement days : 60 years  onwards 

Learning may be :

ü  Based on interest and opportunities

ü  Structured learning – Education

ü  Based on need and requirement  - Training

 Integration of learning  helps in developing competence and one becomes resourceful for any opportunity either  at :

·         Jobs

·         Own business  or

·         Services to society ................

Effective integration –  Strong competence

Stronger the competence – Desired success and satisfaction

Desired success and satisfaction – Happy , healthy and wealthy life !!!!!!!!!!!!


Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

Becoming “ Conscious ”

Human being have two consciousness :

1.       Body Consciousness

2.       Soul Consciousness

 Body consciousness : depends upon basic elements i.e.

Ø  Air – one inhale and exhale

Ø  Water – to drink

Ø  Fire – needs to digest food

Ø  Earth – provide base and support other elements

Ø  Sky – provide space to all elements

Soul consciousness : body is necessary to experience soul consciousness through :

·         Mind – Thinking and feeling faculty

·         Intellect – faculty to discriminate or take decision

·         Memory – faculty to store & remember information

·         Ego – faculty to drive

Body  - perceive the objects – through senses – eye, ear, nose, touch and taste

ü  Mind -  feels the emotions

ü  Intellect -  thinks the thoughts

ü  Memory - support mind & intellect to discriminate and decide on action

ü  Ego – creates an action

Pure - perception, feelings, thinking & action makes one’s pure within and

Brings divine qualities i.e.  bliss, knowledge, peace, love, happiness, purity and willpower which empowers one with:

Ø  Power to pack – be ready

Ø  Power to adjust – open mindedness

Ø  Power to tolerate – acceptance

Ø  Power to discriminate – decides

Ø  Power to judge – decision

Ø  Power to face – take challenges

Ø  Power to cooperate – help and support

Ø  Power to withdraw – keep balance

Pure body, mind & soul –  Make one’s  conscious and powerful 

Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal