A state of mind – “ Emotions ”

Emotion as described in dictionary :

A strong feeling deriving from one’s circumstances, mood or relationships with others

Synonyms: feelings, sensation, reaction, response, excitement , fire...................

Human orientation consist of 5 personality traits:

Ø  Physical

Ø  Mental

Ø  Emotional

Ø  Social

Ø  Spiritual

Each one has its place and roles in describing individual personality. A state of mind depends upon one’s capacity to define or decides its reaction towards people, events & circumstances . In NLP a presupposition describes this very well:

“ A map is not a territory ”

How one perceives , feels and think on people, events and circumstances decides its reaction towards and prompt for an action which ultimately results – pleasant or unpleasant incidents  depending upon one’s personality trait . Some of the reactions may results...............

Productive state :          Happiness, Love and Peace or

Un-Productive state  :   Anger, Fear and Sadness

One’s  orientation, care and concern towards Self, family & society decides the state of mind.

Behavioural flexibility helps to ............

“ Choose Happiness, Love and Peace – which brings success and prosperity in life ”

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NLP – “ Know communication within ”

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It is an useful skill for :

Ø  Education , Training and Learning

Ø  Business & Organisation

Ø  Health and wellness

Ø  Sales and marketing

Ø  Family and relationship

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Driving mechanism - Name, Fame & Prosperity

 

Whether  one desire or not , Individuals & Systems are driven by and for ......

Ø  Name

Ø  Fame &

Ø  Prosperity

Common needs and requirements for people are

ü  Education

ü  Business

ü  Health& wellness

ü  Sales & Marketing

ü  Relationship

Families , Societies , Organisations &  Institutes fulfilling the needs and requirements becomes Self sustaining and successful when driven by  Name, Fame & Prosperity which is the result of well structured

·         Vision

·         Mission

·         Values  

Understand and follow ..............

“ Name , Fame & Prosperity – A natural driving mechanism for success and sustainability ”

 

Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

A life challenge – “ Dilemma ”

Dictionary defines dilemma as :

A  situation in which a difficult choice has to be made between two or more alternatives, especially ones that are equally undesirable .

Personal as well in professional endeavour every one come across  “ Dilemma ” where one needs to take decision for action:

In  “ Dilemmas ” attention requires on attributes such as ......

Ø   Clarity

Ø  Patience

Ø  Intensions

Ø  Outcome

Ø  Priorities

Ø  Interest

Ø  Knowledge

Ø  Control

Which helps in making right choices.

Some of the practical  dilemmas I faced in my life journey and how I made choices shared below for readers :

a.       Selection of subjects & school after class 8^th – Kept patience

b.      Selection of college in Engineering admission – Self confidence

c.       Selection of Branch in Engineering – Role model

d.      Selection of job – Academics or Industries  - New challenges

e.      Change of job – Growth and finance ........

“ Decisions or choices varies person to person based on conditions & attributes of Individuals.” 

When facing a dilemma, choose the more morally demanding alternative.

Harold S. Kushner

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A mindset - “ Conservative ”

In today’s world of fast change  technology & competition one need to prepare oneself  for change to sustain the existence.

 Progress of any ........

Ø  Individual

Ø  Family

Ø  Society

Ø  Organisation

 depends upon  “ how one is ready to accept or prepared for change ”

 Mindset of Individuals associated with family, society, organisation , specially those who are playing leading roles is important .

Conservative mindset or approach may leads one to :

ü  Slow progress

ü  Non existence

ü  More suffering

ü  Become obsolete

ü  Difficult to sustain the changes ......etc.......

One needs to overcome or change the conservative mindset or approach through .....

·         Upgrading  knowledge

·         Learning from other’s experiences

·         Making oneself aware of changes and its impact

·         Taking a calculated risk

·         Adoption of new technology

·         Ready to invest time, money and other resources  .....etc.......

“ Liberalism is the key to change conservative mindset  - adopt it ”

 

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Create an habit of – “ Integrating learning & enriching competence ”

 I developed an habit of integrating learning in different phases of my life.

A saying is  “ There is no end for learning ”

 Based on phases Learning may be categorises

Ø  Early age – Birth to school studies days  - 1 - 18 years

Ø  Youth age – College studies to training days  – either job or ownership – 19 – 24 years

Ø   Middle age - Services  to retirement  days  - 25 – 60 years

Ø  Post retirement days : 60 years  onwards 

Learning may be :

ü  Based on interest and opportunities

ü  Structured learning – Education

ü  Based on need and requirement  - Training

 Integration of learning  helps in developing competence and one becomes resourceful for any opportunity either  at :

·         Jobs

·         Own business  or

·         Services to society ................

Effective integration –  Strong competence

Stronger the competence – Desired success and satisfaction

Desired success and satisfaction – Happy , healthy and wealthy life !!!!!!!!!!!!


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Becoming “ Conscious ”

Human being have two consciousness :

1.       Body Consciousness

2.       Soul Consciousness

 Body consciousness : depends upon basic elements i.e.

Ø  Air – one inhale and exhale

Ø  Water – to drink

Ø  Fire – needs to digest food

Ø  Earth – provide base and support other elements

Ø  Sky – provide space to all elements

Soul consciousness : body is necessary to experience soul consciousness through :

·         Mind – Thinking and feeling faculty

·         Intellect – faculty to discriminate or take decision

·         Memory – faculty to store & remember information

·         Ego – faculty to drive

Body  - perceive the objects – through senses – eye, ear, nose, touch and taste

ü  Mind -  feels the emotions

ü  Intellect -  thinks the thoughts

ü  Memory - support mind & intellect to discriminate and decide on action

ü  Ego – creates an action

Pure - perception, feelings, thinking & action makes one’s pure within and

Brings divine qualities i.e.  bliss, knowledge, peace, love, happiness, purity and willpower which empowers one with:

Ø  Power to pack – be ready

Ø  Power to adjust – open mindedness

Ø  Power to tolerate – acceptance

Ø  Power to discriminate – decides

Ø  Power to judge – decision

Ø  Power to face – take challenges

Ø  Power to cooperate – help and support

Ø  Power to withdraw – keep balance

Pure body, mind & soul –  Make one’s  conscious and powerful 

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The ultimate search – “ Happiness ”

In today’s  “ rate race ”  one is always busy in some or other activities. Searching for happiness in big :

Ø  Bungalow

Ø  Car

Ø  Bank balance

Ø  Name and fame

Ø  Tours and travels

Some of the important Questions one needs to address in search of happiness

·         Where is the happiness ?

·         What is the happiness ?

·         Who wants happiness ?

·         Is happiness available in rate race or material acquisition ?

 Management says :

Experiential learning is the process of learning through experience, and is more specifically defined as "learning through reflection on doing". Hands-on learning is a form of experiential learning .

Rajyoga experiential learner says :

ü  Happiness  is  divine

ü  Self experiences the happiness

ü  Material possession is the necessity of human body not happiness

One needs to experience relationship with almighty the ultimate source of happiness

Happiness brings - Purity, peace, love, bliss , knowledge & power

 Divine qualities empowers creation in life  

 Know divine – be divine “ the source of happiness”

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A resource within – “ Knowledge , Skills & Attitude ”

 

I personally experienced ..........

Each one possess  Knowledge, Skills & Attitude  and develops desire competence within. Broadly  it differ in quality and capability based on individual’s...........

Ø  Family background

Ø  Environment  - in and around

Ø  Educational background

Ø  Opportunities and support

Ø  Individual ’s  interest

Ø  Willpower

Ø  Clarity

Ø  Flexibility

Ø  Awareness

Ø  Courage

Ø  Fear

Ø  Self discipline, sincerity & hardwork .......etc.......

One could easily make out the differences based on Individual’s achievements among :

ü  School & College mates

ü  Colleagues and friends within organisation

ü  Executives from other organisations

I conclude :

“ A structured positive approach from initial stage will definitely help to achieve the desired level of personality traits  ” – Parents / Guardians/Teachers  & Seniors roles are important .  

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A winning instinct - “ Imagination ”

Dictionary says................ Imagination is..........

The faculty or action of forming new ideas or images or concepts of external objects not present to the senses 

or

The ability of the mind to be creative or resourceful

Following words contain in the meaning speaks about the power of Imagination i.e. ability of mind to creates :

Ø  New ideas

Ø  Images

Ø  Concepts

Ø  Creative

Ø  Resourceful

Results or outcome depends upon one’s  power of imagination.

Ability of imagination depends upon one’s  state of mind  -  i.e. Creativity on

ü  Will power

ü  Attention

ü  Desire or need

ü  Purpose

ü  Happiness

ü  Peacefulness

ü  Purity

ü  Knowledge

 “ Good imagination is – key to success ” – strengthen winning instinct

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A state of open-mindedness – “ Defenselessness ”

There is a saying !!!!

Mind is like a parachute – it works , when open – mean “ Open-mindedness ”

If some one is defensive  -   in common terms mean

Ø  No trust on system

Ø  Lack of self confidence

Ø  Less risk taking capacity

Ø  Not ready to take challenges

Ø  Not open for new learning

Ø  Feels unprotected

Ø  Play safe

Ø  Fear of failure ........etc........

To achieve the state of defenselessness  one needs to overcome defensive mindset first .

 Which empowers oneself  with :

ü  Trustworthiness

ü  Confidence

ü  Acceptance of people, situation and circumstances

ü  Open to take new challenges and responsibilities

ü  Fearlessness

ü  Peace

ü  Happiness

ü  Purity

ü  Knowledge

ü  Will power

ü  Love

ü  State of blissful  and

“ One becomes – Resourceful and productive with state of defenselessness of mind ”

A regular practice of “ Rajyoga”  may help to achieve state of defenselessness – one can learn Rajyoga in any of the 9000 “Self development ” centres of  “ Prajapita Brahma Kumaries Iswariya vishwavidyalaya”  across  the world 130 countries.

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Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal