A natural strategy of survival – “ Relationship ”

Dictionary defines the meaning of “ Relationship” as: The way in which two or more people or things are connected or the state of being connected. Or

The way in which two or more people, groups, countries etc , talk to , behave toward, and deal with each other....

Survival or existence of people, things , culture , group, countries & nature is  inter dependent and have a definite relationship and harmony for smooth functioning & survival

All relationship start with “ Self ” -  consist of Body & Mind . There is a presupposition or belief ,  which says – Body and Mind are the parts of same system. Body & mind function with definite relationship & harmony between. Deviation in any one of them affects the others. A system of nature starts with

Ø  An individual  -  have definite relationship between self and others in

Ø  Family

Ø  Society

Ø  Town

Ø  State

Ø  Nation

Ø  World at large  in relation with respect to  geography , people, culture, power and prosperity.

Progress, prosperity , happiness and survival of any Individual ,family, society, town, state, nation & world at large  depends upon purity, satisfaction, honesty, harmony & confidence in relationships.

Caring , sharing and favouring – A key survival strategy of any relationship

 

Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

A look on “ Own Wisdom ” - Memories

Individual has wisdom –  memories  behind life. Glorious today has efforts of past. A review with friends and mentors brings happiness in present , which energies the future span of life.

Stages of life -  start to end

Ø  Learning

Ø  Education

Ø  Training

Ø  Career  may be  Business , Social service or Employment  etc......

Ø  Retirement

An average 60 years Individual  celebrates  40 – 5o years of memories with

·         People

·         Place  &

·         Events

 Excitement brings promise for better future and self satisfaction.

Social media made it possible to bring the past memories , friends & mentors together and create an occasion of celebration. I got an opportunity with batch mates of school and college  and enjoyed the memorable events  this month  - A look on “Own wisdom ” – Memories . 

Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

“ Family ” – Speaks belongingness , care & concern

  

Family  - A very common and widely used  term by people. Some of the generalised terms:

 Individual

Ø  I love my family

Ø  I work for my family

Ø  I have a great family

Ø  Our family  etc......

Collective

Ø  We treat our people as family

Ø  We are great family

Ø  We the  family of professionals  etc.........

Others

Ø  One world one family

Ø  Indian family or western family  .............

Ø  Family of fruits/animals / metals/non metal  etc.........

Word family speaks feelings  “  an  Emotion ” – of  collective consciousness, values , expressions , belongingness, care and concern.  Family relates an individual as

ü  Father/Mother – Parents

ü  Brother/sister

ü  Uncle/Aunty

ü  Grand father /Mother .....etc......

In any Institutions economic consideration  is the basis of its sustainability. News channels are full of news about poverty, prosperity, crime, terrorism, politics, human conflict, incidents etc.....  All relates and have concern with family some or other way. Proper balance in family is essential for sustainability of any nation and world at large.

 Individual forms  a Family, Families forms a Society, Societies forms a Nation & Nations forms a World. Individual  Peace, Passion & Prosperity is the key to world – Peace , Passion & Prosperity .

Be a passionate Individual  - A key to sustainable family 

Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

Simplifying - Chances & Choices

World is full of chances and choices. One need to identify, understand and utilise them righteously

Human being consist of following two components.

Human – Physical i.e. Body

Being - Non physical – Mind, Intellect , Memory & Ego

There is  a term used in NLP presupposition( belief ) i.e.  –  “Mind and body are component of same system ” &

to fulfil basic needs i.e. health , wealth & happiness

All activities, businesses are build on them either related to

Ø  Economics

Ø  Political

Ø  Spiritual

Ø  Scientific

Ø  Social

Ø  Mental

Ø  Physical  

Ø  Safety

Ø  Environment...........or  any  things  else

Equal resources, opportunities,  chances and choices are  available to every one ,   how one  perceive,  think, feel and act decides result . Many books, article available on internet and physical form.

“  Focussed  mind  helps the right selection ”

Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

Invisible - Tagging

Tagging is inbuilt on people names , gender, post or community . It is in-built representation of responsibility. One needs to  know & respect its accountability.  Some of the examples to clarify the meaning of tagging in the article.

Names                         -           Tagging

 Teacher                       -           Knowledge, career builder, guide,  hopes ........

 Leader                         -           Responsibility , hopes , Torch bearer ....

 Society                        -           Care , protection , safety , shelter .........

 Each Tag holders needs to understand the invisible meaning  represented in a particular tag. 

Some of the inbuilt and acquired tags

Ø  Moralist 

Ø  Industrialist

Ø  Economist

Ø  Technocrats

Ø  Intellectuals

Ø  Spirituality

Ø  Artists ...........etc

One may built up  suitable tag based on interest, choice, chance , which may decide individuals

ü  Right image

ü  Right position

ü  Right opportunity

ü  Right recognition

“Own right tag – for effective influence ”

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Passion & Progress – “ Innovative mind ”

The key factor for passion and progress is Innovative mind.

 Training workshop, Seminar and  Technical fairs  are organised within and outside Organisations to educate, trained and motivate employees and business associates to established an environment of innovation. Environment enhances competence to:

Ø  Observe

Ø  Listen

Ø  Feel

Thus creates an awake, alert, aware & attentive state of mind , which helps individuals to aligned  competence with  company’s

·         Vision

·         Mission

·         Values

Set for achieving  -  Goals, Progress, prosperity and sustainability.

“ Observe,  Listen ,  Feel  &   Learn  - To  Innovate ”

Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

Silence - kills - “ Silent Killers ”

In modern fast, competitive Life Style – one invites Life Style diseases which are term as Silent Killers in Medical vocabulary or Non communicable diseases – Is a non infectious disease or medical condition. They tend to be chronic ( long lasting) disease with slow progression. Few are:

Ø  CVD ( Cardiovascular disease )

Ø  Hyper tension ( High blood pressure)

Ø  Diabetes

Ø  Mental illness

Ø  Chronic respiratory disease

Ø  Obesity

Ø  Cancer .............etc

The Obvious reasons are :

ü  Tobacco usage

ü  Alcohol   abuse

ü  Poor eating habits

ü  Physical Inactivity

Common desire of human being are healthy, wealthy and happy life style. One needs  to  follow certain discipline and ethics to achieve the same. I have come across following  5 “ S  ”  of living happy life style  during  Art of living  -  “ Happiness course ”

·         Satsang  - being with good or righteous companions

·         Sewa – Service to humanity or mankind

·         Sadhana –  Disciplined and dedicated practice ( Meditation)  

·         Silence –   Calm and quite state of mind

·         Smile – state of  happiness

Regular practice may leads to healthy , wealthy and happy life style.

One may also look for   free “  Rajyoga  ” course of – Prajapita Brahma Kumaries Iswariya Viswavidyalaya  taught across   9000+ centres  spread over 135+ countries of the world. One may visit the Institute website: www.brahmakumaries.com  to find the nearest centre in One’s locality.

Adopt spirituality  – “ To  live healthy, wealthy and happy life syle ”

Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

Challenges of humanity - Cause & Effect

 

“ A cause must have an effect and an effect must have a cause ”  -  Let us examine and apply simple cause and effect concept on some of the today’s challenges of humanity

Ø  Corruption

Ø  Rape

Ø  Murder

Ø  Theft

Ø  Violence

Ø  Conflict

Ø  Natural calamities

Ø  Environment pollution

Ø  Garbage creation and disposal

Ø  Poverty

Ø   Encroachments

Ø  Illness & suffering

Ø  Emotional blackmailing

Ø  Cheating ..............etc........

News channels, Social media & News papers head lines are full of such sensational messages. Causes & effects are discussed among editors, politicians, social workers, experts, leaders. Guilty and violators are punished. Rules and guidelines are framed to avoid reoccurrences .

Some time back , I attended a 7 days free  “ Rajyog” course of “ Prajapita Brahma Kumaries Ishwariya Vishawavidyalaya” at nearby center in my locality , thereafter attending regularly Knowledge sessions (Typically known as Murli in Brahma Kumaries). Main reasons of all above listed incidents or sufferings are mainly :

 Due to five major vices

ü  Lust

ü  Anger

ü  Greed

ü  Attachment

ü  Ego

Four steps suggested in the course to overcome these vices are:

1.       Knowledge ( Gyan) – Knowing of self, others , supreme authority (almighty ) & relationships with each other .

2.       Union ( Yog) – Once  one understand the self, others & supreme – one needs to have connection with supreme through a meditation technique taught during the course, which gives ......

3.       Understanding  & Absorption of Divine qualities & powers , which empowers ones to

4.       Serve  humanity

Divine qualities are – Knowledge, purity, love, peace, happiness, blissfulness & will power

Divine powers are – Power to pack up, power to adjust, power to tolerate , power to discriminate, power to judge, power to face, power to cooperate and power to withdraw.

One may register online for Rajyog session at any nearby center of ones locality – www.brahmakumaries.com 

“Rajyog – A key to become healthy, wealthy and happy – Empower ones to overcome 5 vices ”

Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

Mobile – Known ignorance

Mobile a gadget of modern communication. Popular slogan in hindi by reputed communication industry Veteran  “ Karlo – duniya – mutthi - mein  ”  dream comes true

Living becomes easy, fast and dynamics. Mobile communications brings economic advantage in common people life at large and  specific in trade and business. Certain discipline in uses of mobile are must . Any ignorance may cost life threatening to the user. Various fatal incidents are reported and lots of precautionary notes are issued by authorities in public interest.

There may be two major possible threat on uses:

Uses of mobile while

Ø  Driving vehicle

Ø  Walking on busy roads

Ø  Charging ..........etc......

 Uses of software available in mobile 

·         Life threatening games

·         Dirty videos

·         Dirty Messaging  etc.......

There are various other technical  harmful effect  like Electromagnetic waves , sound waves etc. Precautionary guideline “ How to use mobiles” available on internet . One  needs to use  simple common sense and self discipline.

“ Don’t become the slave of technology - rather rule it  ” 

Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

A key to joy, love , peace & happiness - “Togetherness”

An individual always looks for joy , love, peace and happiness. We may  elaborate further Individual as part of collective collaboration like

Ø  Family

Ø  Neighbourhood

Ø  Society

Ø  Nation

Ø  World

“ Togetherness ” – As defined in dictionary is a happy feeling of affection and closeness to other people, especially your friends and family.

Happiness – A state of mind which brings joy, love & peace

TEAM as defined below may brings happiness in one’s life by practicing -  “ Auspicious ”

o    Thoughts  

o   Emotions

o   Attitude

o   Memory

 Which  results for all as TEAM again , 

·         T – together

·         E – everyone

·         A – achieve

·         M - more

 “ Together, everyone achieve more  - Be in Unity for joy, love, peace and happiness ”

Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal