Success – An achievement beyond

Success a very common word used very often by people. Meaning of success varies person to person depending upon context and purpose. Perception of individual and others  may vary & not necessarily be the same. Success is not by chance , it need to be planned properly. 

A well defined aim and objective or in the language of Management a SMART Goal clearly measure the degree of success.

S – Specific

M – Measurable

A – Achievable

R – Realistic

T - Time framed

A successful Individual or Organisation has the Vision , Mission and Values.

As shown in the above image of Ice berg the tip is success which is visible and portion dipped inside is the real work behind that success, which is unseen by normal eyes.

Any Success is beyond achievements and need a very structured, planned, efforts. 

“Have a Successful , Happy New Year – 2016 with these small tips”

Prepared & compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

Yoga – A simple technique for “ Healthy , Peaceful & blissful life ”

Since last 25 years I am practicing Yogik life style learnt at NITIE ( National Institute for Training in Industrial Engineering, Vihar lake, Mumbai ) . As a optional course NITIE offers to the Participants of Management Course under EDP( Executive Development Programme ) for Corporate Executives. A very simple and useful tips on yoga based on “ Patanjali Astang Yoga ”

This technique is  suitable for human being of any cast , creed, religion, sex , origin .................as these are related to purification process of three component of body system. Our body systems consist of 3 basic components:

·         Body – Nature is to be healthy

·         Mind – Nature is to be peaceful

·         Spirit(Soul) – Nature is to be blissful

During my life journey I have come across , few Yoga Institutes , Spiritual Organisations , but I find all the teaching leads to same thing , there ways and techniques may be in different names and styles but every one works for above three components of human system with same aims and objectives

If one follows eight steps sincerely, may live a healthy, peaceful & blissful life easily. These eight steps are as under:

1.       Practice of the moral virtues – Truth, Non-violence, Non stealing, Respect, Non accumulation

2.       Regular habits of Purity, Contentment, Study, Austerity & Self surrender

Purify mind – One experiences  peace of mind

3.       Posture

4.       Control of vital energy by breathing exercises

Purify body – One experiences a healthy body  

5.       Withdrawal of the mind from sense- objects

 Self control – One experiences easiness in control of senses

6.       Concentration – Focussed

7.       Meditation – brings awareness

8.       Absorption in the consciousness of God –

 One experiences & realises the Supreme consciousness within – a blissful state of soul

Thus , regular practice gives a healthy, peaceful & blissful state which is the most resource full state brings – Knowledge, Power,  happiness, Purity, Peace, Love, blissfulness in life, which is the ultimate aim of human life.

 Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

In-security – a common phenomenon

Feeling of fear or lack of confidence...........................

Every one is suffering from Insecurity some or other way in life situation. In - security  - A negative emotion which pulls away from success or outcome.

A well defined, clear and structured planning may defeat or overcome the state of In-security. Most of the time decisions are made in hurry or casual way causes In- security thus failure or dissatisfaction in life.

In-security results – Over protection, mistrust and negativity

Uncertainty  in :

Nature – Like climate change, natural calamities, etc......

Law and Order – Riots, domestic crime etc....

People behaviour – Misconduct, violence in society etc.......

These are some of the reasons -  One to  feel the situation like In-security in life

Self awareness,  self confidence , trust , believe, hopes, interdependence, cooperation etc....these are some of the values may help to fight or face the  In-security in life

Prepared & Compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

Explore your – Hidden potential

We  are not aware of our own potential and work in our own way for self interest and relaxation. We all know  time is a irreversible resource, make effective utilisation of it , therefore , it is very important and useful to spread your creativity and let people know it. Creativity brings happiness and prosperity in self as well as others.

 Any thing new and unique , define your creativity.

My son in law Mr. Sujeet Kansliwal a unique example of  unknown creativity within him , few of his creation illustrated below , just an example of creativity:

                                                              (Wooden craft work)

This enforces me to write few words on creativity for several unknown artists in the world, who may come out with their creativity for the benefits of society at large.

My own potential was untapped till I retired. Today I write blogs and also having huge potential to motivate and make people happy and bring changes in their life.One can find lots of articles , books , video on creativity and 

 Make life simple, creative, pleasant and useful with open mind.    


Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

Remember Management – by simple words

During my service career and personal life I have learnt various words and their meaning which has helped me to simplify & easily remember the Management of self and others practically.

1.       Management :

Manage – men – t (task & time)

The word Management it self contain meaning – Management is Manage Men, task with time.

2.       Team :

T – Together

E – Everyone

A – Achieve

M – More

A simple meaning  of team – Together every one achieve more , that is the importance of team.

3.       Watch : Yourself

W – Words – watch words because words becomes action

A – Action – watch action because action becomes habits

T – Thoughts – watch thoughts because thoughts becomes words

C – Character – watch character because character becomes destiny

H – Habit – watch habits because habits becomes character

Destiny is Life

Simple and very powerful words teaches the self development tips , learn to watch yourself each letter and words contains a powerful meaning.

There should be alignment between three very important words – thought – words – action . One can easily observe and make necessary correction and align them which will give the true happiness and desired results.  

Like these so may words have beautiful meaning and one can easily remember and manage  personal and professional life very well.

Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

Survival & Success – Interdependent

Meaning – Mutually dependent or depending on each other

It is a fact , that the survival and success of any individual or system is always Interdependent. One need to be aware of situation and self all the time to understand and take advantage of interdependent elements in his life.

 Nature follows interdependence automatically without any reminders. All elements work together in harmony and play their role and nurtured well. Any outside disturbance or violations immediately or later results and one can see and experiences very well in today’s world of development in the forms of :

Natural calamities – like Flood, Global warming, Earth quake, Cyclones etc..........

These are some of the negative impact, but the positive aspects are very well learnt from nature in real life. There is a saying very often used by all of us : Be natural or follow the nature......................

Progress , Success or even  survival is  interdependent

Individual – Survive and progresses , when system  interdependent within and outside works in harmony and together.

Similarly ...........................

·         Family

·         Society

·         Nation

·         World

Progresses and survive peacefully with Interdependent.

One should never neglect the interdependent elements or criteria in life and be aware of them all the time for Success & Survival.

 Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

God – My personal journey

I have come across conversation in my life for God existence one or the other ways like ......

Ø  God exist within you

Ø  God exist in temple

Ø  God  exist every where

Ø  God exist in the universe

Ø  God exist in all creatures

Ø  God exist in poverty 

Ø  God exist in Guru

Ø  God exist in parents etc..................................

I read some of the books by reputed authors who have written their experiences on God . Visited temples, Guru’s Ashram to experience the existence. I have strong belief on God existence and come across term spirituality , which gave me better understanding about the concept of God existence. In the month of Oct,2015 I attended a “ Raj Yog ” programme for one week of Prajapita Brahma Kumaris Iswariya Viswavidyalaya , Bangalore Centre,  which further strengthen and gave me clear understanding of God existence and spirituality. God is a Supreme soul almighty , formless identity.

With the regular practice of Raj Yog one can experience god presence and empower himself and even help others. God a supreme soul with full of.....

·         Knowledge

·         Power

·         Happiness

·         Blissfulness

·         Purity

·         Love and

·         Peace

Individual is also a soul  can acquire these qualities with regular practice of Raj Yog and knowledge of God with any centre of  Prajapita Brahma Kumaris Iswariya Viswavidyalaya & live a peaceful , happy life.

  This is my personal experience and  lastly,  I reached right place to enjoy the presence of God and his knowledge.

 Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

Important decisions of Life – A General approach

A normal questions, we or elders normally  put to  Kids. What do you want to become in life ?  or when you grow ?

Normal reply comes from Kids !!!

• Engineer
• Doctor
• Chartered Accountant
• Computer Engineer etc........

These replies are based on Kids environment where he lives and grow.

 I remember my childhood days , even after 40 – 50 years same practice is continued in 70 – 80 % populations. After Engineering most of the populations in early 2000 – 2010 or even today prefer careers in IT’s , and rest prefer other sectors and higher studies within or outside country.

In Today’s competitive environment lots of other options available to student after 12^th or even after graduation :

• Hospitality
• Tourism
• Entertainment
• Marketing
• Education
• Independent businesses
• Fashion design
• Handicraft etc.............

Career councillors  are available to advise parents and kids , so that better options can be chosen at an early ages ( may be when student are in  8 – 9 standards ) as per choice and interest of the students. More awareness need to be created among parents so that right decisions may be taken at right time and proper career options may be chosen for children.

Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

A way of Living - “Life”

Life  a small four letters word . Extension of each letter has its deep meaning which define Life. Individuals may have their own definition, meaning and extension depending upon experience and understanding.

First letter      L                                      - Learning –   makes life meaningful and useful. No life without learning.

Second letter I                                       -  Inspiration –  makes life purposeful and dynamic.

Third letter    F                                     -  Friendliness – makes life cooperative. Necessary for survival

Fourth letter E                                      -  Energetic – makes life exist. No life without energy

All four aspects are essential between two beautiful events Birth and Death which is called Life

Learning  inspire individual to create friendship and remain energetic.

A Learned person is always inspired, friendly and fully  energetic.

One need to remember and cultivate these aspect to live a purposeful life.

This is how I look life !!!!!!!

 

Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

One habit which pulls back - “ An Excuse or Excuses ”

A reason put forward to justify a fault , defend an action , justify ....... a pretext

Most common word used by people in daily routine “ Excuse or excuses ” some of the common conversations :

·         These  are  all excuses .....

·         These people are always coming with some or other excuses .......

·         I don’t want to listen any excuse now .........

Etc........

Used by people for the people  in different situation in different context ...........etc

Just observe -  What does it mean ? to some one who is responsible for any task or goal

How does this habit impact on result ?

When we observe this closely ,  it is basically a negative habit developed by any individual unconsciously and it becomes his/her nature with time.

Negative habit mean an habit which pulls you back in achieving personal or professional goals/targets in life.

One need  to self intro - inspect and find out all these excuses in routine and remove them consciously.  

Some time we use these excuses to gain sympathy , ultimately - who is the looser ?

Basically,  one need to be self disciplined to overcome this hidden enemy who kills self respect and keeps away from aims and objectives of life.

Prepared and compiled by: S.K.Udaiwal

An Un-limited potential – “ Capacity ”

The ability or power to do or understand some thing

Synonyms  –  ability, power, potential, competence, intelligence, know how ..........etc............

Due to ignorance or unawareness real potential or capacity is untapped or under utilised. This is a normal phenomenon. Most of our energy is wasted in unnecessary thoughts and negativity, which causes depletion of capacity.

Capacity can be enhanced in two ways :

·         By upgrading our knowledge on regular basis

·         By ignoring unnecessary thoughts

Self awareness is an important criteria for optimum utilisation of capacity. There is a very popular slogans we find in Railway stations/ crowded places: Be-aware of pick pocket. Mean those who are not aware, there are chances of pick pocket to them, similarly capacity depletion or underutilisation is a result of lack of self awareness.

Self awareness can be enhanced with regular practice of “ Raj – yoga meditation ” which one can learn in any centre of  “Prajapita Brahama Kumaries Iswariya Vishwavidyalaya” in their city/country free of cost. 

Know your capacity, enhance it with regular self study, utilise it for best services to humanity 

Prepared and compiled by:S.K.Udaiwal